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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some observations.  Really tired of people talking about the "hard work" of counseling and getting down to the issues.  Is it really that difficult to be open and honest with someone on a daily basis?  Or you need a counselor to explain to you how to open up?  I mean, haven't most of you been dating since HS and experiencing a range of emotions and situations with someone you are romantically involved with?

Also, any post on infidelity should make one understand that every situation is very different.  I really hope that I never have an evening where in my situation one of us confesses to an affair because of the breach of trust.  If I need an affair in marriage to eventually make us a closer couple, there are bigger problems that I would have been foolish to ignore.  What if that evening does happen and I am the one cheated on?  50/50 we would stay together depending on the circumstances.  But no f'ing way I would stick around if my spouse and I still had to interact with the other person, even on a limited basis.[/quote]

Thanks for your observations - lady who never walked in my shoes.  Really enlightening.[/quote]

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