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Reply to "How long did it take for you/your spouse to feel balance/normal after an extra marital affair?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Oy. +1. PP is bringing just a liiiiiiiitle bit of baggage to the table. How about this: what if I do my best to believe you when you say you're not bitter, and you do your best to believe me when I say I'm happy I stayed. I don't talk about this with many people at all, and many people who would consider themselves close to me don't even know, so when someone says "you're a delusional doormat" when I share my experience it actually makes me pause to think "am I?" But when I hugged my husband goodbye this morning and was told I was loved, I didn't feel like one. And when I see my kids tonight over the dinner table, playing games with their Dad, and I get to snuggle up and watch a movie after they're in bed, I'm pretty sure I won't then either. So, try to leave some room for other people's experiences and I'll do the same.[/quote]
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