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[quote=Anonymous]Although I find the email a bit obnoxious,  I wish I would have been more vocal with my IL's.  2 weeks fter my DD was born my MIL and FIL came from out of town to visit. I had a c-section and developed mastitis.   I was running a high fever and had to be put on an antibiotic.  Breast feeding was the most painful experience of my life during these few days.  The night before my ILs came they called to tell us that my SIL would also be coming. My DH explained how sick I was and that we were having a hard few days.  So, the next day my SIL calls on her way here and asks me if I am preparing lunch for them or if she would need to stop to eat.  I told her to call her brother and reiterated that I was having some trouble with pain and feeding the baby and that he was in charge of entertaining them. She shows up with her daughter and her new boyfriend I had met once.  Now, we had a house full of people who sat in my dining room or living room having a fun little party for about 8 hours.  I was lying in my room with baby.  They had the nerve to tell my DH that I was rude for not visiting with all of them and hiding out in my room.  I was a mess physically and in a lot of pain.  I couldn't even wear a bra and they wanted me to entertain them.

My point with this story is that if I could go back I would totally put restrictions on my IL's.  Some people are just plain rude.  [/quote]

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