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[quote=Anonymous]OP here...again: I was going to stop posting but the one or two people who just won't stop are getting really really annoying. Did I used to enjoy and go along with it when he would ask for pics or want to have certain convos? Sure I did. The thought that she clearly wasn't making him happy in certain ways and he had to come to me for it did make me happy for awhile but you know what? I got past that. We are talking about a break up that happened 2 years ago and all of this was happening over 9 months ago...which I did say.

To the PP's who have been in my shoes or who actually offered helpful advice, THANK YOU. Hearing others stories, does really make me think. I can see why this really is unhealthy for me. I was blinded by a 9 year friendship for awhile and didn't want to give that up but I also don't want to just be the person he comes to because he's not happy with her or whatever. I do feel bad for her. She clearly is clueless to all of this and is going to go on and marry him but what do I do? I'm not going to reach out to her and tell her what has happened or what he says. I feel like that is something she needs to figure out on her own. I just don't want to be his "side person" anymore and I am starting to realize that more and more. It sucks to lose a 9 year friendship but I guess that is part of growing up.[/quote]

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