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[quote=Anonymous]Pp, I also worked throughout my spouse's residency and fellowship as did most other spouses.  It would be nearly impossible to not do so given the low salary paid to residents and it is interesting to mr that you are willing to overlook your dh's financial support for this fairly lengthy period (I suspect you are a cardiac, plastic, or ortho surgeon based on your past responses).  Whether or not your spouse had help with the children, I assure you living with a spouse who works many weekends and several overnights a week is a sacrifice and a real strain on relationships.  We made it work because my spouse is very appreciative of what I've given up to be with him and we did not even have children during his training.  Once we did, even though we had a nanny, I spent much more time dealing with household and kid stuff due to his hours, I had no real alternative to dial back a  bit for my own job.  The happiness of my family is more important than my maximizing my career success.

I suspect, given the way you perceive your spouse that divorce is probably in your future.  Talk to a financial advisor and lawyer about your options, but remember than your children will someday judge you on how you treat their father.[/quote]

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