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PP is correct: if you are half-way good looking, a guy would do you in a heart-beat. Even if you were less than half-way good looking some men would do you especially after a couple of drinks. It is how most men are wired.[/quote]

I know this is the popular view, and I have to admit, it's a nice thought, but I don't actually buy it.  I've never been randomly "hit on" by a stranger since college.  And like I said, I'm "average" attractiveness. (Probably a little above average, but not sure anymore pushing 40.)  Now, I don't spend a ton of time alone in bars (and there are good and unfair reasons why that's not an awesome idea for women to do).  But I'm out in the world, at an office with men, meeting up after work sometimes.  I mean, I wait in a bar or restaurant for my DH a fair amount of the time.  So if guys are just "salivating" over all the halfway attractive women, how come nothing?  [b]I don't want it, not looking for it, but I don't buy the theory.[/b]  I buy that men will salivate over any very attractive women.  But I think they're just bitter that women who are much more attractive than they are aren't taking them up on it.  They want nothing to do with the rest.[/quote]

Therein lies the reason!

Men can sense if a woman is interested and they are less likely to approach a woman who does not signal in someway that she is interested. Believe me, if you started flirting with a guy, he'd pursue you.

Of course, there are those like a colleague of mine from Down Under, from years gone by who was pretty blatant and within five minutes of getting into a convo, he'd ask the woman "Do you want to fuck?".  I am serious. Usually, he would not get anywhere with it but every now and again he'd score. He usually did it in a bar after a few beers. And he asked the question many, many times . Even did it once in Des Moines and the woman was so offended she told some guy and it almost ended up in a brawl.[/quote]

Maybe, but I'm still not convinced.  There needs to be a study!  That would be a fun one to design for some sociologist.[/quote]

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