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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Do you or do you not think sex is more important than TV the night before a 10 day business trip?"

It's certainly not good for a relationship (marriage or otherwise) for partners to be sexually on different pages. It's the kiss of death for some relationships.

HOWEVER.

Anyone has the right to not have sex if they don't want to. Their reasons are their own and it is really not okay to say, well, this reason is legitimate but that one isn't. I understand that sex is important, but all this talk of "denying" sex makes it sound like sex is something one partner gives to another, rather than something that two willing adults do TOGETHER.

Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. The needs of both partners need to be considered. It sounds like this lady was not considering her husband's needs, but many of the posters on this thread are not considering her needs, or are [b]saying that her reasons for not wanting to have sex are not valid[/b]. Marriage doesn't mean ownership over a person's body. Any person, male or female. [/quote]

I think her stated reasons were invalid. She may have had valid reasons (e.g. "her husband wasn't unattractive to her") but that's not what she was giving him. "I'm sweaty?" Take a shower - easy. But, of course, that wasn't the real reason. [/quote]

My point was that it doesn't matter what her reasons are. She doesn't want to have sex with him.[/quote]

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