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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Because I see the IP logs from our home network, I know that probably once a month she watches porn before coming to bed and initiating sex (we probably have sex 3-4x per month -- up from about once a month during the infant/toddler years). I'm torn between being happy at the effort and being sad that it takes that for her to want me."

Oh, PP, I would definitely look at this as a positive that she's trying and wants to make you happy.  I think I have a normal sex drive, and I really like having sex with my partner, but there are definitely some times during my monthly cycle that my drive is low and I need to work more to get in the mood.  My partner has a higher drive, and sex is really important to him for connecting, so I make sure I make an effort, even during a week where I could take a pass.[/quote]

You're right, of course. There's just an unrealistic part of me that wants to be the guy she desires fiercely. After 15 years of marriage, I suppose the novelty has kind of worn off. And, it's funny you should mention your monthly cycle. The porn seems to crop up around week 3 of her cycle. [/quote]

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