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Reply to "Men: do brains make up for lack of looks?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 190 and didn't have any more trouble than usual in finding a good match for me. He's awesome, tall, funny and kind. I appreciate him for his unique qualities, not because he fits into my predetermined parameters. The people I know with a list of requirements for their potential mate seem to do it because they're afraid of something. I had an ex sit me down to say she didn't know if it would work out because I listened to rap, among many other genres of music. She wasn't even an audiophile like I am. The comment really struck me as an excuse based in fear. It also told me she can't appreciate me unless I'm just like her. That's no way to live, IMO. I see the same thing when my friends start with the checklist. People who are reasonably secure in who they are can respect someone else's choices and beliefs. Find that security and you'll find someone great. Spending time and energy trying to change someone is setting yourself up for a lifetime of misery. [/quote]
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