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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hmm, I know kind and respectful people who have cheated. Anyone can have weakness or clouded judgment during a rough patch in a marriage.

A good point is made about the importance of chemistry. I think it's more emotional chemistry than just physical. My ex was wonderful in every way as a person and friend, but emotionally something was missing, so I discovered after many years of trying to make it work, that at least for me, everything else without passion was not enough.

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I'm sorry but a respectful person does not cheat on their spouse.  They may play the respectful role real well, but deep down they don't respect someone by cheating on them.  I don't care if it is a rough patch or a drunken night.  If you respect your spouse, you don't cheat.  Ever.  Period.  There is no hall passes for being respectful.

Nobody is perfect.  But when it comes down to infidelity, you are not a respectful person.[/quote]

You sound a bit sheltered. The act of infidelity is wrong, and not respectful to anyone, but kind and respectful people do get themselves stuck in marriages where they love and respect their spouse, but they're terribly ill-suited, and the spouse does not want to split up. This is where I've seen otherwise respectful and kind people end up cheating. [/quote]

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