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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP - I think the thing that has everyone so worried for you is that is sounds like he's ALREADY using the kids as leverage against you. It's getting him what he wants ("collaborative" attorneys), so why would he stop using his best weapon when it's proving so effective? He'll use it after the divorce, too, no doubt, so you'll need iron-clad custody agreements.

He sounds like a shark. You need a shark of your own. He's already scared you by using your love for your children against you. He's already tried to manipulate you into moving our of your own house while becoming his full-time nanny and housekeeper pretty much for free. That is not the behavior of a good or honorable or reasonable man. I really think you need more protection against him. Please reconsider and hire your own independent lawyer, and DEFINITELY see this kind of lawyer *first* if you do choose to head down the path you seem to be on now. If you let him extort you now out of custody fears, rest assured he'll keep pulling that lever. That's how people like him work.

I wish you the best.[/quote]

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