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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know this is a fucking crazy concept: you're not entitled to sex...ever. It's a mutual decision of chemistry, attraction and other, non-tangible things.

How about instead of worrying if the other guy is getting more action, a guy could take the time to flirt, meet women and be real? Get over your rejection issues and play the numbers game. [/quote]

I don't disagree with any of this. I think, however, that growing up (at least in my generation, child of the 70s/80s) - guys are given some ambiguous information about what women "want in a guy." Probably this is, at least in part, a communication breakdown. But when I'd see these magazine articles and surveys and whatnot, I'd fill in the blank "want in a guy [with whom they'd have sex]." And you'd get all of these responses about a good sense of humor, treats her with respect, etc. Things like nice ass, big muscles, money, aggressive didn't show up on the lists.

I'd tell young me that everyone -- man and woman alike - will like you better if you are respectful and funny, so try to be those things; but that those characteristics are mostly incidental to an active sex life. [/quote]

i find it strange that you base your view of what women want on surveys etc. i don't recall reading at 12 that guys cared about looks etc. still kind of figured it out.[/quote]

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