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[quote=Anonymous]To the man- Please do not tell your wife you are not attracted to her because of her weight gain. Please use a more loving and gentle approach, after all she is your wife. Can you say something like, "damn baby! remember that black dress! or those sexy red shorts you used to wear? You look so sexy in those. I would love it if you would wear those again for me!" Then be her helper and do not order dessert, or ask for more bread. Maybe ask her for salads one night for dinner because you are really craving a blue cheese salad. Take a walk after dinner, suggesting you are bored at the tv. Then walk while holding her hand and be playful and suddenly race her to the stop sign. Not 5 miles (maybe later) but maybe a few just around the turn. Or tell her you want to lose 5-10 pounds because you want to look good for her and ask if she will help you by not buying crap at the store and by making a few lighter fares for dinner or by packing your lunches with apples. Then if she does lose weight, compliment her all the time when you see that she lost a few pounds. Grab hr ass, tell her she looks hot. By upping her self esteem and showing that you love her, it should motivate most women. If you go about it a negative way, it will most likely backfire and she will resent you forever and you can kiss your marriage goodbye. [/quote]
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