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Reply to "If you decided your husband was no longer "winner" material, would you divorce him?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a big difference between a couple that goes into marriage knowing full well their spouse expects them to be the sole or primary breadwinner, and the couple that winds up in the this situation unwittingly. I wouldn't see a problem with the former; the latter is a recipe for discontent in a marriage. Sure, stuff can happen -- death, disability. But thinking you were entering a partnership of earning and winding up with eveything on your back -- that's something else altogether. I don't care if the non-earner is male or female. Same issue in my book.[/quote] You can definitely decide *together* that one spouse SAH while the other is the breadwinner. That's what happened in my marriage. But, I agree, that it needs to be a joint decision. I can't imagine making a huge decision like that w/o the input and support of my spouse.[/quote]
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