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[quote=Anonymous]OP - the fact that you condition your happiness with him arranging a date on his first checking your schedule suggests the problem to me. It's not an unreasonable thing to want; but if he's going to lead, he has to lead. If he's a good leader, he'll probably check your schedule. If he's a strong leader, he might not give a damn about what others want you to do -- he wants you to do something else, so tough shit for them and their plans for you.

But, I wonder how many other times he made some kind of fledgling attempt to lead only to find that he hadn't met one of your (perhaps) reasonable conditions. He might have come to the conclusion that, "Well, I don't have strong opinions on most of these things; she clearly does, so I'll defer to her. That will make her happy."

I'm maybe a little less agreeable; so I've made it clear to my wife that, in a given situation, either I'm making the decisions or I'm not. I don't care much either way. However, I'm not in the business of having my decisions second guessed.[/quote]

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