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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe you can skip the service and just attend the afterpary? The family did not invite all of you, just your kid, so maybe that is appropriate. And since you are only attending half the event, give half the amount. If you feel guilty about not being able to give enough and feel your family will be judged, then don't go. The boy is 13, he is not getting married, just following the rites and rituals of his peers.[/quote] This is bad advice. Unless there are extenuating circumstances, it is bad form to skip the service for the party. Don't worry about the present. Give what you think is an acceptable amount. It really is the thought that counts, some posters statements not withstanding.[/quote]
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