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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven’t read all the responses yet but I did reach out.

First I tried to call, no answer.  Then I texted

“Hey! I just saw the invite for your 4th of July party and wanted to check in. I wasn’t sure if you remembered that we’re hosting ours that afternoon too, since you’d RSVP’d a while back. I figured I’d reach out in case there was some mix-up with dates or times”

I got a response within a minute.

“No, no mix up.”

So clearly she’s upset and I was talking to my husband all night to see if either of us did anything else to make her angry.  I am going to ask her point blank but feel like some space is needed.

But if she’s that angry, why would she still invite us?

Regardless we both feel like she’s angry we didn’t attend her Memorial Day party which seems a little silly.

But to answer other questions.

- We do have friends outside of this social group.  But the majority of our friends are mutual.  Again, we’ve been here for two years and because we all have similar aged children who are friends we see each other more often.

- I cannot think of anything else my husband, myself or my children did to upset her but I may ask.

- I guess I like drama as much as anyone would.  I like reality tv.  I like gossip to an extent.  I truly don’t like being involved in drama, or at the very least the cause or making anyone angry.   [/quote]

She invited you so she can tell people she invited you but you didn't come. These people will always do something like that (including fake apologies so they can say they apologized but you won't move on). Don't play her game, seriously. [/quote]

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