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[quote=Anonymous]I work 3 12 hr shifts and on paper, I probably do more of the household stuff. But I'll happily do it. I get an extra 2 days off each week. I can spend half my day laying around and then half doing stuff around the house, and that means our weekends are more free to do fun stuff. Because of my schedule, DH does a lot of later after school activities and is the primary parent for school, camp, etc. He will make all DS' appts but I will go since it doesn't impact work. DH also handles all the behind the scene stuff related to the house. I think one thing that helps is not to be too rigid in who does what. Sometimes I have a busy week so DH will pick up stuff I normally do. And vice versa. We do weekly planning on Sundays. Who is cooking dinner. Who is going to the store when. Who is doing what activity with DS. What does the other one need help with this week. It's worked well for 15 years. No fights or resentment. [/quote]
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