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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am trad wife and my husband is the complete opposite of red pill. We are both pretty liberal. He doesn’t demand that I am a housewife. It was a decision we made together. I wanted it and he was ok with that. The traditional “gender roles” come naturally to us and we just go with that. It works for us without the need to follow some script or ideology. [/quote] We decided together that it made more sense for me to stay home with 3 kids and now I need to separate/divorce and am unable to earn enough to cover childcare. It sucks. All my fault, I know. [/quote] PP here. If it is his kid he should be contributing to child care. We set finances up so even if we weren’t together I wouldn’t need to work by investing my premarital income which is entirely mine he has no access to. In our manage all of his income goes into joint accounts. He never looks at them and trusts me to make decisions based on his personal expectations and our marital expectations. I take care of my financial needs with the joint account money. I take care of the home, cooking,, always dress and present nicely, pamper myself, pay any bills that aren’t automatically withdrawn. He makes vacation plans and takes care of major financial/legal decisions. I have a separate attorney outside of family attorney that DH encourages me to use anytime the family attorney draft something, something needs signing. [/quote]
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