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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Children of divorce and drama tend to be reluctant of committing to any partner, not because of who their partner is but who they are. [/quote] Fair, there is an OP issue here, too, and in this case, OP's list of "cons" are solid marriage disqualifiers, or at least they should be (Cons: diagnosed adhd, messy, stubborn/inflexible, dysfunctional family (but not local). He’s in low earning profession ...) [/quote] Absolutely but OP's also sounds inflexible in her own way and her mental space has as much baggage and her mixed bag/bad divorce family is probably more of a problem than she prefers to admit. BF's income is only a problem if OP herself is a very high or very low earner. OP says he is a hard working professional. Every profession isn't lucrative. OP made a choice to date him for two years already knowing what she is finding objectionable now. At 31, she lacks maturity and self awareness. [/quote]
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