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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Some things about me:

Pros: solid career with good earnings, physically 7.5-8, good sense of humor, good at planning things, smart, own home, go to therapy when I need to

Cons: don’t want kids (this narrows my pool), I’m sometimes overly sensitive, I am not submissive, my family members are a mixed bag[/quote]

I'm going to say no .
Not because of him but because of you. You don't seem capable of an accurate self assessment yet are very critical of him. Which leads me to believe he's not as inflexible as  you claim.
He did start meds which is a huge thing.  So I'm inclined to believe that what you call inflexibility is just him not wanting to be molded into your perfect man.

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100%. OP doesn't seem to want a commitment, responsibility of a husband or kids. Just needs someone for sex, wooing, paying bills, cleaning, cooking, buying gifts, taking on trips etc so basically a yes man who earns well and lives far away from his birth family but can cater to OP and her mixed bag broken family. He isn't allowed to have any flaws or needs.

Marriage is a partnership in which both parties merge their weaknesses and strengths and work together to build a better future for the family. If you can't commit to that, both of you are better off finding people who can make such commitment.

Yesterday's women were better off single but today's men are better off single.

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Everyone who doesn't want kids is better off single, especially if they are dating someone messy, disorganized, and a low earner.  Date them until it's not enjoyable anymore, and then walk away with a clean break.  This applies to men and women.  [/quote]

Keep waking away from one BF to another BF until retirement? [/quote]

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