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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things.  Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men. [/quote]

Newsflash: Women can take advantage of other women, too.

But let's get real.  I will bet anything those lesbian divorces are far more amicable than most hetero divorces and in a lot of cases, even mutual.  How often does that happen for husband/wife marriages?  Men will cling to a dead marriage to a wife that hates him because despite that, she still makes his life cheaper and easier, and he's going to have a rough go of it on his lonesome.

And let's get really real.  You break up with a lesbian, it's unlikely she's going to come after you or your kids violently.  Women have seen their DHs grown-ass tantrums - it is a real risk they will be the target of his rage if they file.  Fear is a big motivator in women staying with their husbands, and I bet the hetero divorce rate would be even higher if that wasn't in the equation.[/quote]

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