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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of siblings and even their spouses play up the card that they make less money or have more kids than their other siblings' families, in an attempt to "win over" more inheritance money and assets.

Older parents at the grandparent age should hope this doesn't get proposed to them, because it usually causes long-lasting problems.

Split things equally amongst your adult children. Most understand if one sib was primary caretaker or managing the finances in the other year, and may get paid for that. But splitting the inheritance or paying for only one sib's family stuff damages things.  Doing so in secret, really does. [/quote]

Both my husband and I have ne'er do well brother who can't get their shit together. The rest of us (siblings on all sides) are doing much better than these two black sheep. In both cases we fully expect our parents to leave them more. They "need" it more. Our parents are right. It is what it is. The less we are expected to help them later in life the better. It doesn't make us hate or resent our parents for wanting to die knowing all their kids will be taken care of.[/quote]

Good luck with that. Hopefully it’s in an irrevocable trust with a non-pushover Trustee. [/quote]

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