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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Touching yourself is not cheating. No matter how little you touch someone else. Get over yourself. [/quote]
Right?! A person would have to feel very entitled to someone else’s body to think that any touching of that body, even by the body’s owner, is cheating. [/quote]

Touching herself is not the issue. Involving another person in it is the issue.  Everyone saying it’s no problem would be perfectly fine with their partner involving somebody else in sexting and masturbating?[/quote]

I would have a problem with sexting and masturbating. This is not that.

You sound unhinged.[/quote]

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Telling each other they’re going to do it, texting about what they’re going to use, letting each other know they’ve started, and when they have had an O, but going for another, etc is not sexting and masturbating? What is it then? I have no issue with it, but her telling me she’d be angry if I did the exact same thing is comical. Why is it different?

That’s the sticking point in this discussion, she thinks it’s no big deal only because it’s 2 women and "that’s different". Ok, what’s different? She can’t say what is different, just that "it is"

We are not arguing about it, neither has an issue if it happens again, I just think the double standard is odd. [/quote]

Did I miss the post where you said you asked her how she'd feel about you doing this, no more nor less than exactly what she did, with a dude?

This sounds like a joke between old friends that you decided to flip out about, mostly because you felt excluded. You're not entitled to her sexuality like that, and no, talking about it isn't cheating. Talking about it a lot still isn't cheating. Talking about it in detail? Not fscking cheating.[/quote]

lol, haven’t "flipped out" at all. Why do the sexes matter? If she posted I had lunch with a girlfriend, talked about running home and masturbating at the same time, then texted while we were doing it, people here would call me a cheater and tell her to leave, they wouldn’t be telling her she has no right to "my body" like the posts here. [/quote]

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