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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This would be an absolute no for me (female). I’ve only slept with 3 people in my life (including DH) but there was no chance I was committing to someone for life w/o sleeping with them (we’ve been happily married for 28 years). People who do this either have:

Religious baggage
Issues with sex

Nope[/quote]

Most people don't view religion as "baggage". [/quote]

As someone raised in a puritanical religion, I had a lot of baggage around sex that I had to work through to have a healthy relationship with my husband. [/quote]

Most religious people aren't raised in a "puritanical" (whatever that means, nowadays) sect.[/quote]

Incorrect. As a person raised without religion, it's easy to see how every major religion has a ton of sex-shaming, slut-shaming, genital-shaming, "women as property" doctrine. If you're raised in it, it's just water to you. You may even think your church/group is "progressive", but... probably not nearly as much so as you might think. [/quote]

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