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1. Listen to your feelings; if you are feeling hurt, do not dismiss it just because DCUM trolls “do not understand”

2. Let’s give some grace to the bf here. Is it the case that he is from a modest background and he does not mean to hurt you, but telling you that you cannot afford smth is a way for him to show off his earnings? Is he not realizing he is hurting your feelings. Tell him you are very happy he makes $$$, but you are also proud of what you do and what you earn, and you would appreciate it if he stops hinting that you are “less than” just because he makes more. Be cool, calm but direct about it. 
3. 60/40 split when his name is on the deed does not sound fair. He gets to have equity, benefit from pricing increase, but you would be giving money to him every month and not build equity, benefit from pricing increase. You can agree to contribute what you would otherwise pay for rent where you share a room. And save, invest the rest, build your own wealth (take classes on that). [/quote]

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