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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t divorce if you have kids. You owe to your kids to remain married. Just separate and regulatly meet for dinners and spend time together with the kids. Be good coparents. Oh and be sure to meet for booty calls weekly or whatever works for both of you. While this is not conventional, it is still better than divorce. [/quote]
Op please follow this excellent outside of box advice. Grass is not greener on the other side. Ignore all the trigger happy women of this board. There is no proof that your husband cheated. The fact that he asked for divorce could mean that you may need to work on your personality.[/quote]

Very few people are trigger happy – at least not in this thread.  Suggestions to talk to a lawyer to find out the various paths ahead is smart.  One person suggested filing first.  One.  So maybe take your BS elsewhere and stop giving crap advice and lecturing people who have been badly hurt by someone they trusted.

Situations like OPs are not typical.  W[b]hen someone gets blindsided, their spouse has already formulated an exit plan and checked out long ago.  This is not a situation where there has been a two way discussion that resulted in a separation.  This is an FYI on the way out the door.  [/b]

Recommending that someone "work on their personality" in hopes of winning back someone who has clearly spelled out that they no longer want to be there is not better than divorce.  Sorrynotsorry, you insufferable POS.[/quote]

Or it's just a threat because he doesn't know how else to fix a problem in the marriage.  Has he actually moved out? Not arguing that OP should win him back or change herself, but trying to get to the bottom of the issue.  OP should treat it, at minimum, as a serious warning and take protective measures around finances and other logistics. [/quote]
She says he’s likely having an affair, so the reason for his departure is logical. It doesn’t seem a big mystery to OP.[/quote]
Just because she says/thinks doesn’t make it true. There’s no proof[/quote]

Yet.  There's no proof yet.  [/quote]

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