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[quote=Anonymous]I've been sober 31 years. The truth is that most marriages don't survive a spouse's alcoholism, even if they get sober. You married one person. Now they are getting sober and their personality and focus and habits HAVE to change for that to happen. It's best for your spouse and best for your kids, but it's usually not best for the marriage. This isn't what you signed up for. This isn't the person that you married.  There's lots of tension around things are changing now that the spouse is sober and is trying to be a better person and better parent.  You've been carrying the burden a long time and you're bound to resent that.  Your newly sober spouse has new friends and you're not included in that, and you're bound to resent THAT.  Your newly sober spouse is taking up a lot of time going to meetings, which is absolutely necessary, but you're left alone while they do that, and maybe you're parenting alone a lot of the time, and you resent THAT.

It usually doesn't work out.  If you're going to divorce, try to do as gracefully and low conflict as you can for your kids' sake. [/quote]

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