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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This “divorced but at least I got to have kids” just feels so cruel to the kids. As if divorce is a “shrug, no big deal” for the kids. If you want kids, but haven’t met someone you want to be with long-term, then have a child on your own. Settling, divorcing and coparenting is so much worse for the kids involved. And yes, I chose not to settle and had a child on my own. Raising a happy, secure kid who doesn’t have to shuffle houses or deal with parents who hate each other. [/quote] It’s better for kids to have two parents, even divorced (especially if they’re amicable), than to be fatherless. [/quote] Says who? Also, this "amicable" divorce story is so tired. I don't know a single divorced couple who is amicable. They all fight and their kids are all worse off because of it. People who are happily married and like their spouse don't get divorced. You're kidding yourself if you think it's not a big deal for your kids. [/quote]
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