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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And I should add, I was angry for years. My anger according to him was one of the reasons for his infidelity. I gave up being angry a long time ago. I just want peace. [/quote] I think peace is more likely to come from you having a backbone and some healthy boundaries. Peace will not come from giving him money. And I do not think that seeing each other twice a day is going to help you have peace. It's way too much interaction. You'll be better off with less, with disengagement, with giving him less space in your brain and taking up less space in his. Maybe you've given up being angry but it still seems like you're trying to upwardly manage him into being a better, or at least different, father than he actually is. And I don't think peace comes from trying to change him. Peace comes from accepting who he is-- a bad husband and an only-okay father. It is what it is.[/quote]
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