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[quote=Anonymous]As someone who married into this, both had ridiculous expectations about how much we saw them and didn't even factor in my own parents. My spouse was not raised by his father after the divorce, barely saw him and got no funds for college and his father started a new family and sent kids to private school and paid for college. His mom felt the kids interrupted her dating life and resented them. She even at one point decided grandma should raise them. Needless to say DH had to figure out how much time he wanted to spend with them and what he felt he owed them and set limits when one would demand we see them if we see the other one. He also had to make it clear we will not hold separate events to please them and if they are all there, they are expected to be respectful to eachother.[/quote]
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