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[quote=Anonymous]OP: why don't you offer him to sit down and prepare a spreadsheet budget? It's unfair for you to pay 50% for eating out if 1) he is the one wanting to eat out whereby you might be happy to grab yogurt at home. Happened to me: men eat a lot ! 2) If you make 1/4 of what he makes, then you should contribute to joint expenses pro-rata your income, not 50/50 Just offer this is a calm manner, first determine what joint expenses you have (and eating out on his insistence is not), and the ratio of contribution to make everyone feel it's fair It's an adult conversation people have after discussing exclusivity but he skipped it as he insisted on paying for everything himself. You should revisit it, instead of quitting, IMHO (of course if he is nice with you otherwise, but that is a different issue). [/quote]
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