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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh what a turnoff.

OP, any other problematic traits? There have to be others. [/quote]
Yes. Really the worst of it is that he is one of the most negative human beings I have ever met. For example, his birthday was a couple weeks ago and when he called me after work I was like "Happy birthday!" and his response was "I'm 37 and old and life has no meaning anymore." Wtf?

He just always has something negative to say about his own life, society at large (he literally thinks America is ending and will cease to exist in the next ten years...) or others.

The other is that he is constantly giving feedback when I don't want feedback and am just venting. For example I will say "Ugh, my boss was so rude today about XYZ" and instead of saying "that sucks I'm sorry" he will say "You should ask her about ABC" (which 9 times out of ten I already have, I am just venting). Although in fairness to him, this is a male trait in general, I think?[/quote]

I think your man sounds depressed about life in general….I mean his doomsday thinking is really over the top.

You may want to break up w/this guy & find someone who isn’t such a downer in general.

I couldn’t stick it out with someone who is so negative.
About EVERYthing.

Sheesh.🙄 [/quote]

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