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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What I struggle with as a man is when my wife complains that she's not as attractive as she used to be. Since my options are to either agree with her or lie to her I try to say as little as possible. For what it's worth she looks great for her age and I'm still attracted to her - we're just not the young people we were when we met.[/quote] And what she wants to hear (if you really want to not struggle) is simply - "You're the most beautiful girl in the world to me because I love you and you chose me. We're both not the young people we were when we met but you still make my heart race." That's it. We know it's just asking for an ego boost. Just give it up. Sometimes we're fishing, sometimes we just want to be reassured, sometimes we just want to hear we're pretty because after some years you forget to tell us. The fact that you frame is as "lying" is weird. Don't be obtuse. [/quote]
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