Anonymous wrote:Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.
That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.
Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.
Anonymous wrote:What I struggle with as a man is when my wife complains that she's not as attractive as she used to be. Since my options are to either agree with her or lie to her I try to say as little as possible. For what it's worth she looks great for her age and I'm still attracted to her - we're just not the young people we were when we met.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. He is definitely more attractive than I am. He gets hit on quite a bit. I’m cute but definitely not hot. Im also the least attractive of all his girlfriends.
It just hurts me. I don’t want to with a partner who feels they don’t love all of me.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What I struggle with as a man is when my wife complains that she's not as attractive as she used to be. Since my options are to either agree with her or lie to her I try to say as little as possible. For what it's worth she looks great for her age and I'm still attracted to her - we're just not the young people we were when we met.
"Hon, you are [age], and you still look hot."
This is not hard.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What I struggle with as a man is when my wife complains that she's not as attractive as she used to be. Since my options are to either agree with her or lie to her I try to say as little as possible. For what it's worth she looks great for her age and I'm still attracted to her - we're just not the young people we were when we met.
"Hon, you are [age], and you still look hot."
This is not hard.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You both sound shallow.
I don't think it's shallow for a woman to not want her partner to say to her that "I don't find you super attractive".
I'm not super attractive, neither is DH. But, I would never say that to him, or vice versa. DH says I'm beautiful all the time, but I know he knows that I'm not super attractive.
Someone who says that to a person that they supposedly love is just mean.
How did this happen, OP? Were you asking questions and pressing? Was he drunk? Were you arguing? Or ???
OP here. We were watching P@rn and he was watching one with big breasts and I said those look like mine and he said
“ no, hers are better. I jokingly said
“ what..you don’t like mine” and he said that they weren’t the best he’s had but he likes them. I did pry and he told me it’s okay because he’s sure there’s things that I don’t like about him. Then he said I wasn’t as attractive as his previous partners but I’m the nicest and have the best personality. I got mad and left.
Anonymous wrote:I’ve been married for ten years and this wouldn’t phase me one bit lol.
Anonymous wrote:What I struggle with as a man is when my wife complains that she's not as attractive as she used to be. Since my options are to either agree with her or lie to her I try to say as little as possible. For what it's worth she looks great for her age and I'm still attracted to her - we're just not the young people we were when we met.
Anonymous wrote:I think it's a little lazy to just tell OP to break up with her partner. That's so easy for you to say but maybe they have a good relationship outside of this interaction. I dunno.
Bottom line is what he said was really insensitive and dumb, and he should apologize profusely. A romantic partner should make you feel wanted. So it is completely fair to feel hurt. I think OP just needs to think for herself, can she get over this? And it may depend on his reaction to her telling him how it made her feel. If he is mean and dismissive about it then that suggests she should consider ending the relationship.