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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]so you equate my husband and i living together and having sex together before marriage, as the same as my husband sleeping around and cheating on me?  those sound like opposites to me, what am i missing. [/quote]

No they are saying you live your h even though he had previous partners.

So if he cheats why is it so hard to bang him again.[/quote]

so theyre saying because he had a girlfriend that he slept with before he met me, thats the same as him cheating on me?  i still truly dont follow this train of thought.  [/quote]

These are hard-core religious folks that throw people into "before" and "after" buckets related to sex. Sex is considered so sinful that once you've done it, welp, that's all she wrote. So why not keep doing it and what does it matter, marriage be damned, and you as the partner shouldn't care either because they're already tainted, so to speak.

It doesn't make a lot of sense. See also, the high number of religious types caught up in sex scandals, abuse, and overall power dynamics in sex. It's a believe system heavily rooted in shame and blame. [/quote]

No. Your entire post is inaccurate and should be discarded by readers. This is not at all correct.

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