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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just tell her.[/quote]

No.
Do NOT tell her.

To you, this is gossip. You don’t know this for a fact. You heard it second hand from your DH. And DH was told in confidence.

If you are the one to tell her and she didn’t know already, then you will forever be associated in her mind as the one who told her this terrible thing about her husband that you can’t even know is true. And her husband can just say “I don’t know where she got that idea!”

It will also destroy your husband’s relationship with his friend (for spilling this secret) AND with the wife (bc he kept the secret from her for 8 years!)—so regardless of what happens, if you tell her, it ruins the friendship that the four of you share in some way or another.

Finally—if you tell her and she already knows, then you’ve destroyed her ability to just ignore it and live with it bc now she’s humiliated and has to acknowledge it since you know.

Bottom line is stay out of it.

And also of your DH is willing to keep that secret for that long, I suggest you watch your own relationship. (There’s no way my DH would “cover” for a friend’s infidelity for 8 years)[/quote]

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