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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you have your own food issues as well OP. [/quote]

Sure! I hate wasted food and I hate people who eat more than 2-3 helpings when it isn’t a celebration. If it’s just a regular Saturday no one needs the chicken parm and the hamburger plus a side salad plus the calimari and wash that down with the monster sundae. No one needs to eat that much! And if you do choose to eat that much, fine but I don’t want to pay for it (especially since the dinner conversation was just listening to a lecture/rant). I don’t live very extravagantly so maybe that’s another psychological issue. [/quote]

But you said he eats it all, so where’s the waste? You are fixated on what you see at gluttony and greed around food. Time to work on your own food issues, OP.[/quote]

Stop. There’s no serious dispute that the FIL had serious food issues, call it food insecurity/gluttong/ whatever. Stop gaslighting the OP into thinking she’s the one with the food issues. No one their right mind acts like the FIL (orders 2 entrees for himself, orders extra entrees to go, hogs meat at the table, monitors everyone else’s food intake). [/quote]

Thank you. Restaurant portions are pretty big. We have plenty of snacks and food in the house, and before he comes I stock the fridge so he has lots of choices.  I have also explicitly bought things that he likes (altho I won’t set them aside specifically for him and forbid my kids from eating that food). He doesn’t need to entrees plus app plus dessert.  No normal sized human who is not training for something like the Olympics needs that. It’s not judgment, it’s a fact.

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