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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will be very happy to help my ACs. It will require us to buy a huge home together with equal amount of contribution and work out the details of responsibility, respect, rules and roles in a way that no one is taken advantage of. Frankly, I do not want to take that risk and become vulnerable and dependent to my kids.Why? There is no societal norm for multi-generational joint families in this society. This is a selfish society. [/quote] We are a nation of immigrants that left their home countries for freedom and better lives. My parents were on their own at a young age out of necessity, not selfishness. You have no guarantee that your DIL will want to live under your roof. Better have a Plan B. [/quote] We are not a nation of immigrants--we are a nation of 2nd-son Englishmen who started a revolution and enslaved individuals who laud the foundation for the success and values of this country. Over the centuries, other have come to take advantage of this, which is fine, but a truth. American didn't start after the 1968 immigration laws.[/quote]
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