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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy, lay off the OP on the waiting to remove tumor thing. Depending on the location sometimes they may need to do radiation or chemo to shrink it enough before operating.

OP, I'm sorry that you're not getting the support you need from your husband. What you need and want are all reasonable. I hope he gets enough of a change of heart and see a therapist at least. *hugs* [/quote]

Not for 2.5 years.[/quote]

Yes, actually, for 2.5 years. If you don't like a fact in the story, just move on. I'm not asking for medical advice from a people online who aren't part of my care team so I haven't shared all the details of the diagnosis and what I've done so far.  But right now we are waiting, which is hard.[/quote]

You definitely don’t have to share every painful fact of your story when you ask for advice on DCUM. But sometimes when you tell only part of the story, what we readers are privy to doesn’t make sense, and it’s hard to give advice when we can’t picture what is going on. That’s all. I don’t think anyone is trying to give you medical advice. We’re trying to give you relationship advice where it matters a lot how objectively serious your medical condition is, for example. And we can’t tell that when the details don’t add up. I’m not demanding you tell more. I’m just explaining.

For example, one possible reason there could be a disconnect between you and your husband is if you think this is very serious and life threatening and he does not see it that way. That’s why folks are trying to figure out the facts (I think).[/quote]

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