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Reply to "I have a tumor, DH doesn't care. WWYD?"
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[quote=Anonymous]What does your therapist say, OP? You are of course entitled to leave him if he’s not giving you the support you need. There’s no right or wrong — just what you need and what he needs. And it sounds like there’s a mismatch. It sounds like every day while you’re waiting for surgery is scary for you, and you want to feel like he’s “with you” in the fear and taking it seriously. I get that. But also, it’s not a healthy way to live to be in constant fight or flight for 2.5 years. You don’t actually WANT him to feel that way. If he’s able to be supporting when something is happening, I think you should consider cutting him some major slack for not checking in and asking how you’re doing etc during the passive waiting phase.[/quote]
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