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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a fat, dumpy, happily married woman and am sure I could remarry quickly if anything happened to my DH.  DH’s divorced friends tell him that they wouldn’t be divorced if their wives had been more like me…laid back, optimistic, sense of humor and easy to get on with.

I think most never-married women and men in their 40s likely are rigid and controlling even down to their ideas about what they want in a relationship.  Or they have mental issues that send out red flags to potential mates.  And at least half of the divorced ones are too probably, but you can’t be certain there because the other half could have been the cause.[/quote]

Same here, the happy go lucky dumb doormat strategy has served me and my marriage well too. [/quote]

Other than this thread seeming to be a bunch of married people gazing out from the comfort their couches and casually labeling singles as mentally ill, my favorite part of this thread is the delusional, yet hilarious, attempted flex of the self-identified dumpy PPs above, basking in the certainty of re-marriage should they desire it. I am happily married, but have no illusions that I was lucky to find my match early, and that the current dating scene is at best a challenge, at worst a horror show once kids and careers are in the mix. Married people, lighten up on the smug judgement. It’s ugly. Dumpy PP, you sound happily married, and good for you. You should stay there. :)[/quote]

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