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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Although she was thin when we met, dated, married ... I now have a fat wife. And that will never change.[/quote]

This is such a tired complaint. All the men who cry about this - had they never bothered seeing older women before they married? (Probably they didn't - mothers and grandmothers not really existing because not a focus for sexual attention.)

Men have known for millennia that the gift of bearing, birthing and raising them children would cause a woman's body to become misshapen and often rounded and even rotund. And they have complained bitterly for millennia just the same.

Older women with children who care for a husband and kids AND are still premarital, pre-motherhood slender are outliers. They have always been outliers. [/quote]

There is a huge difference between middle age weight gain in American from, say, 1960-1990 and the obesity of today.

There is very little middle ground, especially in larger cities. Men and women are either conscious of their health and usually in great shape or exactly the opposite direction. [/quote]

I actually find that the older millennials and up are more health and weight conscious in this area than younger millennials and Gen Z. My young millennial/borderline Gen Z neighbors have big time dad/mom bods despite not having kids. They get a lot of food delivery. [/quote]

Older millennial women as a group are all obsessed with SITC beauty standards for men and women. It was the thing we all consumed in our 20s. Our late 30s/early 40s are like payback for all of the years we spent living off of booze and raw spinach, wearing skimpy clothing and $600 sky high heels to go out...I can say this as I am one, but I never liked that TV show. I was subjected to it in the sorority house.[/quote]

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