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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wtf?

First, you give his family members 2k a month! That’s 24k per year! And he wants you to pay back a 45k inheritance he commingled?

Second, what about the 80k in gifts your parents gave you? Did you commingle that and if so then shouldn’t he pay you back?

What a dick. Tell him to get a better paying job if he wants to go on guy trips.[/quote]

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If those gifts were comingled and you split his lawyer will argue precedent and he will get more than you, half plus what they leave him. If you do not want to comingle you really need a few very expert legal opinions, not assumptions.

His family is getting $24,000/year but he slacked and cut his share of the income by 40%!!! OP is conservative with money, it does not seem like that cut was discussed and agreed to at the same time kids are in college. OP is trying hard to ignore the many, many red flags of things that have changed and is determined to believe she is in control, facts to the contrary. [/quote]

His family is getting 6000/yr.  OP said 500/mo to his family, 1500/mo to their kids' college tuition.  That's why their budget is currently tight.[/quote]

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