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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I also think his focus on the boys weekends just makes part of me sad. The last time it came up, we were talking about him and I going away for a long weekend and things weren’t great at his job so we didn’t go. But a month later he wanted to fly to Portland for a guys weekend.[/quote] You guys sound disconnected and like you have fairly different values around money and leisure time. With empty nesting then retirement looming, it may be helpful to look for a counselor who helps couples with money differences and this life transition. I'm sorry you are feeling sad, I think you both need to invest more in your marriage - communication, intimacy, recent shared experiences, etc., not just have money be a primary tie. Would he be open to a counselor? [/quote]
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