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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, things that one doesn't understand are often murky/questionable. You could try to find out more, maybe ask a surrogate or someone who has worked with a surrogate, or if those are too hard you can throw vague shots on the internet about "money and power". No one forced Chrissy Teigen's surrogate to work with her, or act as a surrogate, or continue to work with her after the initial loss. This attitude is so condescending to the wonderful surrogates and intended parents out there. I see the same sneering condescension on the prior pages about "nannies doing night duty". People involved in childcare are (or should be anyway!) considered highly respected professionals. The best ones command status, pay and benefits befitting of such an important role. But there's no satisfying the jealous harridans of DCUM.[/quote] I don't envy Teigan, but I actually know a lot about surrogacy, and my issues with it are not vague or uninformed. I have serious reservations about it and I am uncomfortable with the increasing popularity of it as an option for wealthy and famous couples. I do not view it as an unmitigated good. It's complicated, and it's not so simple as someone wanting a baby and a woman volunteering to gestate one for them. It's never that simple. And the comments about "nannies doing night duty" were simply accurate. Teigan, to her credit, has been very honest about how much help she and Legend have as parents, and they had a night nanny with Miles and I would assume given the challenges of having two infants plus two older children, and Teigan's history with mental health issues, that they are not going to skimp on childcare this time. That's not an insult, it's an acknowledgement of reality.[/quote] NP - honestly? All it will take is a surrogate of a celebrity dying. Then people will take notice. [/quote]
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