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[quote=Anonymous]I'm surprised people are jumping all over OP. I think her post is thoughful and appropriate. I commend you, OP for being a great, concerned, stepmother. It seems OP is asking about a precedent being set by just paying for whatever the mom says. When DC turns 16 will she buy a car and send the bill to his dad? It is about setting boundaries and respecting them. It doesn't seem the mother is respecting OP and her husband at all. OP, I'd first try to speak to the mother about all the extras. If she doesn't seem interested in some sort of agreement, then I would seek legal advice. Perhaps you can suggest the total fee for all summer camps (yours and hers) be split 50/50. [/quote]
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