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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, when you complain that you raise one issue and she raises six issues in return, you may be misunderstanding what is going on her her head. If you complain she is ignoring you and she brings up your facebook time, she may be trying to explain something to you: "I am ignoring you because I feel ignored." Or "I was not focusing on you because you did not see interested in me."

You are assuming it's a hostile tit-for-tat. She may simply be trying to ask you to see how things look from her perspective. If you want her to say, "I'm sorry, I don't want you to feel ignored, I care about you," you need to be willing to hear her, too, and tell her, "I guess I did not realize that YOU feel hurt by me, too."[/quote]

Is he ignoring her though by going on Facebook?  If she asks a question does he ignore her or brush her off because he is on Facebook? Does she want to do something and he can’t because of Facebook? Ignoring doesn’t mean you went to the mall with a friend or read a paper and didn’t hang out with your significant other. It means ignoring. When you want to talk and the person won’t or when you say something and the person doesn’t acknowledge it. When you never seem interested in them but overly interested in other things. Men in movies read the paper all the time. Now it’s the phone but it’s still the same thing. Is that ignoring? What need of hers is not being met if she hasn’t brought it up before?[/quote]

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