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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is deeply insecure and has extreme anxiety found someone who will tolerate her BS.  The more she focuses on your shortcomings the less she has to acknowledge hers.

That’s it.  Nothing more nothing less.[/quote]

+1000. [/quote]

How do you get people like this to stop being so insecure in a nice way rather than boastful? People like this are the worst for me to deal with. I do not feel insecure or anxious about new things and am a big problem solver and these people bother me to no end and they hate it that I don’t have the same negative outlook and angst. I feel like the only way I can be at their level is to complain about others or quit on something like they do and I hate myself when I do that. I’m a growth minded person and these people from all areas of my life seem to spend all their time announcing an issue with something while never bringing anything to the table. Even if I agree with them on a subject that something is bad I dont care about it enough. They don’t like a person and they said something stupid. I say that was stupid but really it’s just words and the actual issue is a much larger issue they refuse to focus on because they don’t like the actual goal or result. If I’m working hard on something with them and often for their benefit or wish and it becomes too hard for them then all of a sudden I’m to blame for giving them a task that is too hard or done wrong and not worthy enough. It’s a type of narcissism. One of them said to me the only fault they could find in themselves was that they cared too much about others and all I could think about was how they cared too much to tell others how they felt about everything all the time. [/quote]

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