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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am an OW.  If I were confronted, I would say I'm sorry and I don't expect her forgiveness.  She can tell my husband, but he already knows and knew from the beginning.  I was intensely lonely in my own marriage and made a terrible mistake in a moment of weakness.  He told me everything I wanted to hear and made me feel beautiful and alive again, and told me that his wife was not interested in him or his needs at all and that he was lonely too.[/quote]

You sound like a complete and utter idiot or maybe a victim of abuse who has stunted development. Were you abused as a child?[/quote]

Yes.[/quote]

I’m sorry you were abused. Has your therapist explained why you do destructive things?[/quote]

Are you wondering if the straying H was abused?  It takes two to tango…[/quote]

Yes I wonder. Or bipolar. But he’s not here to answer.

90% of bipolar spouses cheat. 80% of child abuse victims cheat.

It’s not a huge leap,

She clearly used language that people who suffered childhood abuse use. Any 1/2 decent therapist can read her post and predict she was a victim of child abuser.[/quote]

I am curious about this. What in the specific language she used suggested she had been a child abuse victim? [/quote]

It’s not a book she wrote what in her post does not scream I was abused? [/quote]

Sorry what?[/quote]

Can you please point out what in her post a person who was not abused would post.[/quote]

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